» Member Meeting

Crucial Conversations – for Coaches, Attorneys, and Financial Neutrals How do we talk with clients about critical topics in the process (specifically) and in divorce (generally)? Presented by: Debbie Beach, LCSW, Geoff Burroughs, CFP®, CDFA®, and Erin Golding, Esq. Wednesday, January 10, 2024 5:30 PM – 7:00 PM There are moments at the beginning, middle, and end of Collaborative cases where all Collaborative professionals find ourselves needing to have critical conversations with our clients to help shift their thinking and set the case up for success. In this program, we will discuss – from each profession’s perspective – some key conversations that professionals need to have with their clients at the start of Collaborative cases to help ensure clients’ expectations are set appropriately and that the case has the best chances of successfully moving through the Collaborative Process; the key conversations each profession has during the Collaborative Process about substantive issues clients are grappling with; and the key conversations we have near the end of a Collaborative case to bring it over the finish line. Please note: This meeting will be conducted by Zoom. Please contact the DCACP Adminstrator at DCACP.office@gmail.com for more meeting information. Kindly submit an RSVP below to record your attendance. Read More

Monthly Member Meeting Wednesday, January 11, 2023 5:00 PM – 6:30 PM Supporting Adults and Children When New Partners Enter the Picture After Separation/Divorce Presented by Karen S. Bonnell In many of the families we work with, a parent’s new romantic partner is part of the picture, or parents anticipate dating in the future as they move through the divorce process. Karen Bonnell, a mental health professional (retired) with over 40 years of experience working with families as a therapist, divorce/co-parent coach and mediator will join us to answer some of our most pressing questions. Today, Karen helps parents Divorce Well – prepare their children for two-home family life, Co-Parent Strong – strengthen their co-parenting skills, and Step-Wise – assist with how to successfully introduce kiddos to a new romantic partner and integrate a new adult into two-home family life – best practices while moving toward stepfamily. Karen will speak to so many of the issues we have all wondered about: How does growth and development play into a child’s readiness to integrate a new adult into their sense of family? How do we help parents and the person their dating to understand the axiom that “the slower we go, the faster we’ll get there”? Help parents see, anticipate and manage the “five stepfamily challenges” that begin during the dating phase – for example, discipline. Help parents appreciate the impact of dating on their co-parenting relationship, how to discuss dating with a co-parent, and how to prevent the risk of children falling into painful loyalty binds; important considerations when developing a parenting plan that supports next-time family. Help parents begin to imagine the purpose of forming a constructive parenting coalition where all the adults communicate and work together on behalf of the kiddos… huge impact post-decree. Please note: This meeting will be conducted by Zoom. Please contact the DCACP Adminstrator at DCACP.office@gmail.com for more meeting information. Kindly submit an RSVP below to record your attendance. Read More

Monthly Member Meeting Wednesday, November 9, 2022 5:00 PM – 6:30 PM Introducing the DMV Social Media Campaign Please note: This meeting will be conducted by Zoom. Please contact the DCACP Adminstrator at DCACP.office@gmail.com for more meeting information. Kindly submit an RSVP below to record your attendance. Read More

Monthly Member Meeting Wednesday, October 12, 2022 5:00 PM – 6:30 PM Raising Happy Rainbows: LGBTQ+ Youth in Divorcing Families Presented by Amy Cannava, Ed.S., NCSP The vast majority of LGBTQIA+ youth are born to heterosexual parents. This often leaves even the most well-meaning parents unsure of where to turn for needed affirming medical and socio-emotional supports. Parents may not always see eye-to-eye on how to best support their children and that can lead to marital conflict. Therefore, divorce professionals need to be informed about the development of sexuality and gender identity, the coming out process, the impact of affirmation, disproportionate risk facts of queer and trans youth, and family dynamics. This presentation will arm attorneys, financial neutrals and mental health professionals with the knowledge and skills needed to better advocate for their adult clients AND the children they are raising. Please note: This meeting will be conducted by Zoom. Please contact the DCACP Adminstrator at DCACP.office@gmail.com for more meeting information. Kindly submit an RSVP below to record your attendance. Read More

Monthly Member Meeting Wednesday, September 14, 2022 5:45 PM – 8:00 PM Presentation begins at 6:30 PM. Raising Happy Rainbows: LGBTQ+ Youth in Divorcing Families Presented by Amy Cannava, Ed.S., NCSP The vast majority of LGBTQIA+ youth are born to heterosexual parents. This often leaves even the most well-meaning parents unsure of where to turn for needed affirming medical and socio-emotional supports. Parents may not always see eye-to-eye on how to best support their children and that can lead to marital conflict. Therefore, divorce professionals need to be informed about the development of sexuality and gender identity, the coming out process, the impact of affirmation, disproportionate risk facts of queer and trans youth, and family dynamics. This presentation will arm attorneys, financial neutrals and mental health professionals with the knowledge and skills needed to better advocate for their adult clients AND the children they are raising. Read More

DCACP 2022 Summer Party! Wednesday, June 8, 2022 St Vincent’s Wine Bar Party starts at 5:30 PM. Weather permitting (fingers crossed), this event will be held outside on the upstairs deck. Tickets for attendees are $40 per person. Please purchase your ticket(s) by Wednesday, June 1. Warmly, The Enlivenment Committee Read More